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      <image:caption>creating boundaries in 3 steps</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>creating boundaries in 3 steps</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet Alex!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet KC</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>creating boundaries in 3 steps</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>creating boundaries in 3 steps</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>creating boundaries in 3 steps</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet Shoshana</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet Helena</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet Alex</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - When Weekly Therapy Isn’t Enough: How Intensives Accelerate Trauma Recovery</image:title>
      <image:caption>creating boundaries in 3 steps</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>‍ ‍Meet Jenean‍</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Meet Shoshana</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>As a couples therapist, I utilize the Gottman method every day. I love how accessible it is to both therapist and client, as the Gottman institute provides many free or low cost resources for everyone to use. This book characterizes the essence of the institute by being practical and backed by years of research. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is a comprehensive guide to fostering a successful and lasting marriage. The “Key Principles” that Gottman identifies are summarized below: 1. Enhance Love Maps: Develop a deep understanding of each other's world by continuously updating your knowledge about your partner's thoughts, feelings, and life events. 2. Nurture Fondness and Admiration: Maintain a positive perspective on your partner by appreciating their qualities and expressing affection regularly. 3. Turn Toward Each Other: Cultivate responsiveness to your partner's emotional needs, big or small, fostering a strong connection and a sense of being valued. 4. Let Your Partner Influence You: Embrace compromise and collaboration, recognizing that decisions and problem-solving should be mutual and considerate of both partners' perspectives. 5. Solve Solvable Conflicts: Develop effective communication and conflict resolution skills to address issues in a constructive manner, seeking compromise rather than "winning." 6. Overcome Gridlock: Address ongoing conflicts that may feel insurmountable by understanding the underlying issues and finding common ground. 7. Create Shared Meaning: Cultivate shared rituals, values, and goals that give your relationship a sense of purpose and direction. If any of these principles stand out as something that your relationship can grow in, I encourage you to pick up this book!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>If you are a woman and you are having sex, you should read this book! If you are a man and would like to better understand women’s sexuality, you should read this book! "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski is a groundbreaking book that explores the science of women's sexuality and offers insights into understanding and embracing one's own unique sexual experiences. Drawing from research in neuroscience, psychology, and biology, Nagoski presents a holistic approach to sexuality, debunking myths and addressing common misconceptions. I love this book because it continually normalizes women’s sexual experiences, while acknowledging aspects that may be hard to love about yourself. It also explains the reality of women’s sexuality, as it is very different from what we learn from the media, and often even our cultures and the medical model. There is also a companion workbook that accompanies this book if you want to work on putting what Emily shares into practice. Overall, "Come As You Are" offers a compassionate and scientifically informed perspective on women's sexuality. It empowers readers to embrace their individuality, overcome challenges, and cultivate a positive and fulfilling sexual journey. The book combines research with relatable anecdotes and practical advice to create a comprehensive guide to understanding and nurturing women's sexual well-being.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This book is a modern day classic in the psychotherapy field. It is a transformative book that explores the profound impact of trauma on the human body and mind. Drawing from decades of clinical experience and research, van der Kolk explains how trauma can shape individuals' lives, affecting their emotions, behaviors, and physical well-being. Many stories that van der Kolk shares are emotional and even gut-wrenching. However, he shares his experiences to show the readers how the mind and the body are interwoven, and how healing is also two-fold.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This book is about men’s depression, but it is not just for men. If you are in a relationship with a man, have a son, or even just know a man, this book can provide mind blowing insights with what is going on in their brain (or at least that was my experience). Real delves into the societal pressures that often discourage men from expressing their emotions and seeking help. Through personal stories and clinical insights, he uncovers the hidden struggles of male depression, which can manifest as anger, isolation, and self-destructive behaviors. The book provides a compassionate and insightful perspective, encouraging men to break free from traditional masculinity norms and fostering a path towards healing, connection, and emotional well-being.</image:caption>
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